NO! It's not, an abduction is the polar opposite of a "trad wife situation". Just because those sort of relationships *happened* in the past doesn't mean they embody traditional relationships.

Fathers made sure their daughters had good husbands not some creepy 40 year old pedophile looking for a sex slave. Traditional marriage is about both sides finding a devoted life partner and having a dynamic with them that works well with the inherent differences between men and women, it's not about fulfilling a man's fantasies.