Would you encourage your teenage daughter/son to join Nostr?

I’d love to bring the whole family here, but I want to be cautious.

Would you be concerned about the potential risks linked to the lack of content moderation?

(harassment, bullying, exposure to harmful content, …)

Centralized platforms like Instagram offer “teen accounts” with stronger safety settings that limit unwanted contacts, inappropriate content, etc. They often require parents to supervise the account and authorize less protective safety settings.

Would it be possible to replicate some of these safety measures in Nostr? Is there any NIP out there addressing this?

Could the Bitcoin concept of hierarchical deterministic wallets be adapted to Nostr?

A (literally!) 'parent' account could potentially manage 'child' accounts with limitations like whitelists, blacklists, messaging and content restrictions.

What do you think? #asknostr

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Nice. Looking forward to having many clients implementing this and more!

Personally, if I want to get my children involved with Nostr, I will do it on my own account where I can assist with the content curation. Access to the digital realm for teenagers and children should be treated with caution, even with safeguards. Nostr is no different.

Would it be a cool feature for parent accounts on Nostr? Absolutely.

Should this be developed? At some point, yes.

If I had a son I assume he would be ready for nostr by teenage years.

If I had a daughter, I'd probably leave it up to her mom to decide what age we should recommend it at, since the woman would have more understanding of how talking to the wrong man can cause trouble, etc.

If the mom isn't in the picture I might still rely on outside guidance

We have little to no tools for parents to limit what their teens could see on Nostr at this time. That's kind-of the point of a free-speech protocol. Every user is just a key-pair. There is no special key-pair for minors. Clients have absolutely ZERO method of determining how old the person is behind a private key, because there is no KYC, and that is BY DESIGN.

That said, I think there is a way some parental controls COULD be implemented by a parent using NIP-46, where the parent holds the private key, rather than their teen. For instance, if the teen was not given their private key to log into Nostr clients, but only a bunker string that would send signing requests to the parent's instance of Amber signer, the parent could have pretty granular control over whatever the teen is doing on Nostr. They just wouldn't have a lot of control over what the teen could potentially see, other than being able to approve or deny particular requests to follow an npub.

Any client that has a "global" feed would still give the teen access to all sorts of sensitive content.

Another big downside of this option is that since Nostr requires virtually everything you do to be signed, parents would get annoyed pretty fast with all the manual approving they need to do for every little thing. That can be mitigated a bit by allowing auto-approval for certain basic actions, such as reactions, zaps, and such.

I see no need for special key-pairs for kids.

Key-pairs for kids could be generated from and controlled by parents' keys (as in a btc wallet).

In this way, safety settings and content moderation are placed in the hands of parents via a set of fine grained permissions.

Among these permissions, there is of course the visibility of the "global feed".

If the above scheme is properly supported by Nostr clients, moderation by parents might be a one-off effort.