Ahh you don't really need Tor, Tor just enables you to be able to access it from anywhere , it can also be done with a VPS like tailscale. But if you're only using it on your home network, you really need nothing at all, you can just connect to your relays IP.
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I think I did use tail scale with it for a while but I prefer my VPN. Idk maybe I’ll try to do it again because it’s been a while and it’s important.