I don't know what you said but your post can't be deleted because there are multiple relays that would display it. So it wouldn't matter if one of those relays removed it because it would still be visible on those you didn't offend.
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So that's the difference between a centralized and a decentralized platform. Nostr is decentralized so your post will remain visible to your audience - - as long as your audience accesses the relays that didn't remove your post.
I don't mind my post getting seen, I didn't want to hide it but him reporting my handle for profanity and hateful speech? his content was even more suspicious. you see, if I posted that on Twitter, no one will consider it even lewd and no one gets offended because it wasn't directed towards anyone. it was simply conversational and I'm known on Twitter as 100% wholesome so to be judged that way and even posted it like I was a criminal, leaves a bad taste in the mouth