Thank you. I don't understand that mentality at all. The things that are important for my own decisions and the things that are important for other people's decisions should always be the same. I see it as a great sign of respect that I'll barge into other people's business even though I have no right to control their life. I want to understand them and I want to make sure I share the perspective I believe is relevant for them.

If I respect other people's thinking the same way I respect my own then what other way is there to respond to a conflict between us? Don't you believe in engagement?