lol exactly who I used to learn about setting everything up in the first place. I couldn't get btcpay to start as a service but I could start it by just running

but it would disconnect every day

So i decided I'd rather open my lnd to the public and added tlsextradomian to my public ip and rebooted. That's when I started having issues with core and by extension lnd.

I tried disableing nbxplorer and cloudflared services and still no luck.