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I think a lot of adults on conventional social media (esp since TikTok) forget how much we share the space with teenagers. No where else in history have adults and children sharing spaces to this extent, on a peer level - it's not natural. Even if you only follow people your own age - you're likely still engaging with their comments and observing/participating in the viral trends that they invent. Millennials need gen-z approval/clicks to go viral, so it makes sense that we regress back to using our teen-brains online. And it makes us collectively less mature. I've been noticing lately how IG is full of 30-something year olds that are just full-time regressing back into teen-brain things like celebrity worship (which we do before we learn what real success is), rating people and being overly focused on body types/physical features (which we all do before we fall in love and learn that it transcends so so much), slut-shaming, gender wars, bullying (which we do before we grow up and realize everyone is just scared and/or angry). It's honestly super WEIRD how millennials spend so much time on the internet engaged at a peer-level in conversations led by 13 year olds (incapable of nuance). And I think it hinders a lot of people's spiritual(for lack of better word?) development. I could see how it's a bit of an escape - to steep in this lower consciousness - but it seems like it's at the expense of growing up and finding stability and being more real and free and open and genuine. And like I said, it's weird...

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You sound like the church when they wanted people not to read books from the printing press. Do you know how lack of efficent ways to communicate hindered us as a species? Boomers are so dumb because they had to go to libraries to learn and their selection was very limited, censored, and not always available. Now we have all the information we can imagine at our fingertips and it gets bigger and better every day. And every day millions of humans get on the internet for the first time and get access to all of the worlds answers. If they are stupid they will fall in to the social media trap. If they are smart they will learn and use social media as a tool. Then the smart prey take advantage of the stupid peoples stupidity and leverage it to their advantage. It is the parents job to make aure their kids aren't stupid and teach them how to be smart

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I'm talking about mainstream conventional social media - specifically IG and TikTok - and how they've set up an environment where children/teens and adults interact as peers. Most people use them daily and don't think twice about this weird reality.

I'm also not really thinking about access to information or the internet in general. I'm talking about the way the majority of millennials spend their time, and the implications it has on larger life lessons. Typically humans have looked to elders to guide personal growth, but on these platforms all older adults are written off as politically incorrect dinosaurs with no wisdom to share and meanwhile we share trends with teenagers, literally talking about love and sex with them - I just think it's both weird and interesting to notice