You don't get what I'm saying at all. My point has NOTHING to do with society's expectations, it has to do with spiritual growth. A lone wolf is a dead wolf, your family cannot thrive without other families also doing so around you. I have been a War Tax Resistor, boycotting banks, credit, and have NEVER filed income statements with the IRS. I have not funded, do not pay the least bit of attention to, and care not at all what puppet figureheads run the circuses distracting the useful idiots.
I can and have built my own shelter from scratch myself, grown my own food, and healed myself with my own medicine many times over the last three decades. I have many times lived off grid with zero bills, work and live in the cash grey markets as a lifetime solopreneur without having a 'job' for over 15 years now.
I speak from experience, hard won with blood, sweat, and creativity, not wishful thinking or programmed propaganda. The fact is, if you wish to go slow short distances go alone with only your physical efforts serving only yourself. IF you wish to go far quickly, use mechanical advantage and coordinate with others and find a way to serve your peers value.
Broken corrupted money is responsible for the ills you complain about, We say fix the money, fix the world because building the foundations for society on fiat sand can only lead to collapse of the house of cards. Proof of Work matters not just for Bitcoin, it matters for people, and for communities as well.
My advice, grow the fuck up, quit your whining, and do some work creating value for more than just yourself.