If it’s only about your own experience, then it’s all good. Your client can choose to ignore notes for any reason.

The problem is when your preferences as a publisher affect your readers scope of actions. For example, if you have OnlyZaps enabled, and the client then hides the like button for readers of your post.

Of course, readers can switch clients. The point of my meme is that imposing the author’s zap preference on readers is an attempt at censorship—censoring readers’ reactions.