Replying to Avatar Dr 🎃 Tetanus(a very spooky case) 👻

Damn... I'm not gong to admit to siding with mongoose with this one. But the selection in the dating pool is a huge problem that has nothing to do with dating podcast talking points, man. In my area there are these categories of women; pillheads, coal burners, independent roasties, half n half squaws, a decent size orthodox russian community, and the decent Christian women who were proud of where they grew and married early to high school sweet hearts or family friends.

I have one friend (fit/ from money) who had children by a pill head, and he fled to Arizona with his parents to escape that mistake. I have another friend (thin but not terrible looking dude, makes high income) who's been married twice, and is trying hard to keep the second wife since they had 2 kids together(they had separated after the first). Anecdotal, but the selection pool is a big problem you're not addressing for guys with looks, strength and money who should otherwise be in a longterm relationship with the mother of their children.
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38155b74... 2y ago

I pointed out that the pickings are slim for most right now. It's not a good time to not be in the top 1% or whatever of men but if you give up then you have absolutely no chance.

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Dr 🎃 Tetanus(a very spooky case) 👻 2y ago

That's great advice for a guy in his 20s, but for a guy in his 30s who's been burned already by a woman they loved it's not that easy. You're either stuck trying to make a relationship work and trying to forgive betrayal or major failings. Or you're calloused and you work out when you're not working to help fight the emotional and spiritual damage.

I'm not advocating for mixed race dating. But neither am I going to tell some lonely and damaged guy he's dead to me if he finds someone who's not of specifically western European stock(except niggers) and that he should have just accepted his fate as an untouchable in today's dating atmosphere and die from despair now or years later alone in a hospital bed.

Idk