Honestly, the more I learn about bitcoin the more I realise I don't know.
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https://void.cat/d/RFMDMwpBDfcK7p2H6o31tT.webp
https://void.cat/d/APWKw5b1VXuZJQNsSa1SF2.webp
https://void.cat/d/He1baa47gKYgWb1orbMVWR.webp
This answer my dilemma. Tldr : when the receiver receive the secret preimage R