The implication here seems to be that when Will does what he thinks he should, and people get pissed about that decision, that it's Will's responsibility. I reject that premise. The beauty of NOSTR is that one can choose.
Each developer choosing to make the client that fits them best should be celebrated. Each developer averaging some perception of what they think the user wants wouldn't end well. Worse if developer chooses based on the comments of the vocal, biased by selection. Better to consult principle and common sense.
TLDR, It's good that there are multiple opinions, not bad.