"I frequently had clients ask me to meet women they had brought to the UK from developing countries so that I could “break them in” by introducing them to BDSM submissive practices and show them what was expected of wives and girlfriends in the West. I was not to mention how I had met their male partner, nor point out that the substantial sum we would have exchanged would amply demonstrate how far these practices were from any understanding of “sex” among the wider female population. Reader, I did not take this up."
"I visited a private clinic to ask about vaccination against diseases like cholera because facultative virulence is oblivious to threats of “kink-shaming”. The nurse I spoke to wasn’t aware of the extent to which practices involving bodily fluids were being culturally transmitted across the world through the vector of online porn."
https://nordicmodelnow.org/2019/12/09/miseducation-this-is-not-a-love-song/