No, I'm not only connecting to my relay, I'm connected to 13 relays apparently. And I want everyone on Nostr to be able to see everything I'm posting. Period. Regardless of relays or apps or follower or non follower.
Sorry to waste your time here -- apparently I'm so clueless I don't even know what to ask.
Please don't feel compelled to try to help any further.
I appreciate you.