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I’ve read six books, seen two therapists, and flew to Peru for ayahuasca trying to get over it, and the feeling lingers…

But the courage to have difficult conversation needs to come from her.

I’ve been ready… She is dismissive avoidant, and has never faced any challenge, she runs from it…
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StackSats.IO 2y ago

Do not listen to the woman telling you to go get the previous woman.

Women do not understand the challenges of men in the modern world and vice versa. You don’t know what it’s like to be drowned in dickpics and she has no idea what it’s like to chase a woman in a world of online dating.

Going backwards doesn’t work. Go forwards. Adjust your mindset; embrace being the one adored.

Whatever you do; don’t take relationship advice as a man from a woman.

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Bauzen 2y ago

I understand this… fully.

Doesn’t make it easier 😔

I’m trying…

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StackSats.IO 2y ago

Nothing makes anything easier and I’m not here to stroke your ego.

I will however warn you, man to man, from doing something as retarded as taking relationship advice from a woman. DO NOT DO THIS.

Go forward.

See what it’s like to be adored, maybe you thrive and it’s great but maybe you don’t and it’s horrible. Find out.

Just don’t go backwards.