Jor this happens all the time in Australia.
When you mess up you cop abuse and you take the tough love. Sometimes a brutal reality check is the greatest form of love someone can show you.
Everyone is different.
I get where you are coming from - but we have leave some scope in our society to battle each other with language. It sure beats the sword. I'm not sure the word 'normie' is ever applied in a context of actual hatred.