Well, This is why i connect
#nostr behind
#bostr proxy instead.
If you have an unused server, Put
#bostr and make your nostr client connect to it. It's really worth a time.
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Honorable mention:
Gossip model powered nostr client is definitely going to suffer with this problem forever. Even with tor, You will still get pissed off with the performance