man, wireguard is driving me bonkers tonight

easy, making fixed IP nodes form a mesh

seemingly impossible to get a client to connect to one, or all of them.

so, i get the mesh working, great, over SSH, all three nodes ping each other on configured addresses

then i try to add the servers to my local wireguard peer and add the peer of my local to the remotes, ded. lose ssh connection. the end. game over. try again.

4 times later i'm ... not so inclined to try again

i guess i gotta read some more shit. man, i used to read good. i don't read so good these days. i gotta handle this.