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I’m fairly observant. Not in a gossipy way but I enjoy observing people’s reactions and interactions with one another. Like being at the zoo so to speak.

I noticed some strange interactions last night that didn’t ring right to me. Then I found out after confronting my friend (our Thanksgiving host) about my observations that she is indeed secretly seeing her uncle’s married business partner whose wife I sat next to at the dinner table.

A bit unexpected from a friend whom I’ve known to be painfully shy and goody two shoe.. not someone’s fucking mistress.

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atyh 2y ago

People make strange choices to feel certain ways. 🫢

AK 👸🏻 2y ago

Indeed they do. Feel good now about the bad choices, deal with the consequences later.

Shashue 🌳🛖⛰️ 2y ago

I've seen and experienced enough situations to where it's almost impossible to surprise me.

My conclusion is that in most cases neither side of that relationship cares. They're in the "situationship" their in bc their both getting a specific thing. And often that thing has little to do with commitment or loyalty and more to do with the physical things of life.

Rarely, but in some cases, a person really doesn't know and on course for some major disappointment and pain. In those instances it pains me a bit, especially when their are children involved.

But not to the point where I'm going to get involved.

AK 👸🏻 2y ago

I wonder, because it seems abnormally common place to be a mistress or adulterer these days that their wives are ok with it.

When everyone does it, it’s no longer wrong or even embarrassing. The new normal as they say. An open secret.

F that. I will never accept it.

joiestylotus 2y ago

Sad. I don’t get why girls devalue themselves by becoming a mistress. Assuming the man has money or/and is handsome?

The wife didn’t notice anything?

AK 👸🏻 2y ago

Idk. Either she knows and doesn’t care or completely oblivious.

joiestylotus 2y ago

Wife is probably oblivious. Most people aren’t that attuned nor observant as you (and me.)

Or she knows he’s a cheating bastard (most likely has done it before) but looks the other way cuz likes their cushy life style.

It’s always a shock when find out a friend or someone you know is cheating on their romantic partner.

Imho, the easier, simple, honest and best thing to do is just break up with current person FIRST, then go be with whoever you want.

Cheating on a romantic partner is a CHOICE, a selfish one that will cause lot of harm, esp if there are kids involved.

RealJohnDoe 2y ago

It has been my experience that many women are a lot different than many men think they are. And a lot different than many women themselves think they are.

I've never known any that were willing to wait for me to sign their dance card. They take what they want. One way or another..❤️🫂🤔