But I have it filtered to paid relays too

Well, you are a Muggle-born. You may not have been born with the same level of magical ability as those who come from pure-blood families or have had generations of wizards and witches in their lineage. However, that doesn't mean you can't improve your abilities through hard work and dedication to your craft. Have you been practicing any spells or charms?

Depends on what relays you allow in your global feed. I use paid relays only in global and there's almost no porn.