Why not store the delegation token with Alice's profile as a hint to followers. "Bob sharing text notes and likes ... is actually also me". This way,
* relays could be oblivious to this and wouldn't have to carry the burden of extra indexes
* clients that would have to be delegation aware anyway would have to explicitly query Bob **or** relays could themselves get the delegation from Alice's profile to serve Bob's events as per delegation
* revocation would be resolved by event replacement