no clue what XMR is or if BTC and XMR should work together but it sounds like fighting by what i just read.

self protecting self == walls =/= cooperation

and... greed, hatred, and ignorance are the roots of suffering (these 3 are also forms of separation [self-other] to protect a non-existent self)

i don't know what the mix of those 3 is in this case and it's none of my business becasue it's their stuff to deal with.

PS if you look for those 3 in most troubling situations between people, you will find the reasons.