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1) Fear
then to reduce fear by creating a "safe" environment,
2) Petty Authoritarianism
then to resolve the cognitive dissonance of Petty Authoritarianism and wanting to be a good person who always fights for truth and sweetness,
3) Re-framing
or to be less kind, gaslighting.