Question on introverts: what makes you people go into a relationship with an extrovert? We're obnoxious noisy buttholes!

I see my sweet silent husband hide behind me, my sweet sensitive son hide behind his smaller roaring brother, is that it?

Are we your walls and guns?

Well you are our pillows and safenets, so thank you for that.

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Actually, you nailed it. I would love to date an extrovert simply because they could drag and yank me along to where I probably wouldn't dare to go - but I would trust them enough to tag along.

This is exactly itπŸ˜©πŸ˜‚ My husband seems to be ok in bigger groups, but as he told me, "he's old and trained to handle it." He uses my unstoppable mouth and persona and takes the ride. For me it's nothing, taking a mic in full theater is fun etc.

I realized how different we are after our first kid had first meltdowns from just being on the same empty playground as another kid. I didn't get it, husband absolutely did.

But introverts also don't realize we're not as arrogant as we simply don't understand and can't even imagine how people around make you feel.

https://nostrcheck.me/media/public/nostrcheck.me_7721169536796140731706636372.webp #introvert

We'd shrivel up and die without the sunlight you force us into on occasion.

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Makes for a good balance βš–οΈ

It does, doesn't it? I wish it was a good match for all, but it doesn't feel like it.