Inevitable. It's a personal responsibility matter that is scary for most, even most of us. (And there's a reasonable argument to victimhood until commonly understood). Modern reality: Actions are not private without the premeditation or intervention of a security expert, and then only by degree of confidence.

Options oversimplified:

Strategic preference falsification - Socially destructive, personally destructive, potentially ineffective, unethical.

Radical transparency - Freeing, helpful to others, allows one to own one's own inadequacies.

Provably secure communications channels accessible to 80 IQ 4 year olds: Necessary for the future of human health