I'm the only user on my instance. I didn't want to deal with shitty admins and having entire instances blocked. So instead of crying about it, I solved it and control what I see. The only instances that have ever blocked me are full of trannies and mentally ill people, so I'm ok with them blocking me. Fedi has lots of issues sure but it isn't dead. Once more people start using Nostr all the idiots and weirdos will make it over and we'll see some of the same issues here as well.