It would be lucky if you have lifelong friends, that means you always grow up in the same pace. But it’s totally ok if you have not. Growing up could be a lonely process and if you don’t go in the same pace, it’s fine that you could be temporarily disconnected a bit. Everything that rises must converge. Even finally you don’t reconnect, at least there was once beautiful moments together.

It doesn’t mean you can’t maintain relationships or you are not kind enough if you find yourself once enjoy being with someone but not anymore, and you don’t have to feel guilty or shame about that. Everyone changes and no one could accompany you along the whole journey.