I couldn't agree more. "Do not be swayed by fear or history or the opinions of outsiders." The only way to do this is to spend a lot of intimate time with yourself, and be deep in thought. Ask yourselves questions. Be curious. Try to answer "why?" Challenge yourself to see the growth potential. Always. Learn and start to believe that the sexiest thing is to know yourself. Let me repeat that, the sexiest thing is to know yourself. So, spend time away, go for a walk and go somewhere beautiful and ask yourself questions and don't leave until you get an answer and learn something new about yourself. When this begins to happen, fear and the outside world start to have less control over you, and you begin to see yourself differently.