We tested zaps on this note… we made six attempts to⚡zap this note, at ben@www.jetpen.com, over a period of about 5 hours. In each case, we found that your lightning address server did not respond correctly. You might want to look into using a cloud-based Lightning node which is optimized for Nostr zaps, to get your zaps working.
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Sorry, I removed my lightning address from my Nostr profile, so don't try to zap me. The reason being I was using Wallet of Satoshi which just worked. When that got taken away, I never found another free lightning wallet that worked as easily. I mean, do I need to pay for Primal to make zaps work? This illustrates exactly the point of my original post. It's not obvious to a noob how to easily get equipped to make Bigcoin and Lightning work according to best practices.