When YOU have a problem and feel compelled to tell / text your wife about it, STOP AND THINK - Why do you want to share this information with her?

IF there is a direct & immediate impact on her, then yes tell her what is going on - (you were going to be home at 5PM but now you are delayed, you were going to do X task but now you cannot, etc)

IF there is not a direct & immediate impact on her, then solve the problem BY YOURSELF and do not bother her with useless information. Maybe you will tell her about it later, maybe you will not.

Keeping your wife updated on every little problem in YOUR LIFE only causes her undo stress. 😰

What is SHE supposed to do about YOUR dumb coworker?

What is SHE supposed to do about YOUR dead car battery?

What is SHE supposed to do about YOUR slow doctor appointment?

A woman who in burdened with stress & responsibility takes on a more masculine role in the relationship - She will be less open to your leadership, less sexually interested in you, less feminine.

#responsibility #attraction