When it comes to choosing a partner, I hope to find a beautiful and intelligent woman. In terms of my career, I also aspire to have a high-paying, prestigious job that allows me to make a meaningful contribution to humanity. Whether in relationships or in work, what I truly seek is a partnership based on mutual respect, equal exchange, and complementary strengths.
However, if the other party approaches this relationship not with a spirit of mutual benefit and collaboration, but rather with a condescending attitude—as if granting favors to a servant—then despite my own vanity and desire for what they have, I would rather walk away than obtain it through flattery or begging. I understand that what they possess is valuable—but what I bring to the table is no less rare and precious.
My core belief is this: the world goes on just fine without any one of us. Even if both parties seem to hold something of great value, neither of us is truly indispensable.