A decade ago i was in trouble with no home and no work after moving back to my own country. A friend gave me advice which works for him, to work at a place recommended me to his boss to do a kind of work not suited for me, not my skills, very out of place. I kindly rejected the offer and doubled down on finding a job which aligned with my dreams and talents. It made all the difference. That was an extremely important crossroads in my life.