For me it does never reset. But sadly I do not know how to help.
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That's good information still, thanks, maybe it's something I do then? That's weird. The only thing I do is switching time to time from #amethyst to #primal but I doubt that's the reason, could it be?
That's exactly the reason. Primal keeps updating your nesc with it's follow list. Then, the next time you open Amethyst, it reads your info from relays and discovers that you've signed a request to delete your follow list with the Primal client.