i am of the opinion that the free nostr network, as opposed to the fiatjaf zebedee fake freedom tech centralised network will require a lot more work on building easy to manage personal relays.
and it's an instant business model to offer a VPS service with scripted deployment for people so they basically manage it through a simple web interface, and always have full access to every bit of data on it via FTP or SSH.
and the simple systems administration stuff, almost anyone can learn it. only assholes who want to do bad things to you or lord over you or seem bigger than they are are saying you shouldn't try.
just as stupid as people who say you shouldn't run your own bitcoin full node. lol.
welcome to team freedom!