LOL!

Men are perfectly capable of spontaneously forming teams and structures if motivated by a common goal. Better than women, if experimental data can be believed.

Its just that, in FOSS-world, goal-directed bahaviour looks like this:

Man: "I shall build my own digital realm, over which I may reign as pharoah!"

[does stuff]

Woman: "hi!"

Woman: "something something something"

Man: "hi!"

[updates goal to "get smile from woman"]

[does stuff]

This probably worked on flint-knappers and cave-painters in the Paleolithic.

We can probably thank an Ur-Silberengel for the development of indirect-percussion flint-flake technology...