Thank you! Found you in the global feed and this type of #dating stuff needs to be said more!
I don’t know about all the vibrational part, but it makes a lot of sense to work on yourself. I think most people that are wanting to date always look the wrong place.
Influencers like Tate and Fresh & Fit.. they’re looking in the wrong place, and they’re telling other men to look in the wrong place. More importantly they’re encouraging people to be selfish, instead of working on themself.
I was listening to a podcast and Fresh and Fit was saying that most women don’t have hobbies, that they are one dimensional and lack anything valuable in their mind and then he called them all something very derogatory.
They’re looking in the wrong place for women. The women on Nostr are next level thinkers. The women at #garden clubs are amazing. In America, “Women Owned Business” is very popular right now, and many of those women have a lot of drive and are leading their type of business because their competitors are stagnant. These women are not one dimensional.
My wife is not boring, but I met her at church. I suppose you could say that our vibrations matched? We are very compatible because we already cared about the same things.
The women at bars ARE one dimensional, and that’s where Tate and Fresh N Fit are looking. They act like little boys, so it’s no wonder they find immature women.
The woman that owns a business, the one that is devoted to her church or supports a worthy cause, the woman that understands gardening and plants and trees, the woman that understands the difference between #nostr and twitter, she is thinking ahead. She is interesting. She thinks of her grand children’s future. She plants a tree knowing she will become old and die, and it will still not be big enough for her to sit under. A mature man can find that kind of woman easily, but they will only find eachother at a place where mature people spend time.