I don't really get the issue. People could just not donate sats if they disagree with how OpenSats is operated. Or start up something different.
OpenSats isn't perfect, but it isn't easy to be. Especially when it comes to conflicts or bias. Bitcoin and Nostr are still relatively small circles as far as development goes. There's bound to be overlap until more people come into the space.
There are also relatively few people willing/able to stand up and do better. This leads to the same small group of people taking on many roles.