"All humans, because of their upbringing, tend toward one of the four “control dramas”: intimidators steal energy from others by threat. Interrogators steal it by judging and questioning. Aloof people attract attention (and energy) to themselves by acting reserved or withdrawing. And poor me’s make us feel guilty and responsible for them."

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Here's a quiz from 2002 to find out which you are.... The Intimidator, Interogator, Aloof or the Poor Me.