My husband has been practicing "secret minimization" for years, because, "you're only as sick as your secrets".
So, when we met, he was honest with me about the things a lot of other people might feel ashamed to scared to share with a date.
However, because he was honest, he allowed trust to grow really quickly. I knew exactly what I was getting into!
He shared the things that some women would run from.
Because he was honest about his history, his personality, and his dreams, I was able to choose him on purpose!
His actions led me to dare to be way more brave, and share myself as well.
Secret minimization is one of the keys to a healthy, connected, and loving marriage. We still practice this every day!
This is why I added it to our new book, "How to prepare yourself for marriage".
If you'd like to read more about this and all the other things we did to prepare ourselves to be ready for marriage, please check it out! 😃
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