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hmm I'm not sure if expecting "the one" is a good or a bad thing 🤔

Hope is a double-edged sword and can both lead us to the light at the end of the tunnel or to a never ending road paved with dissatisfaction.

Have you ever thought "what if I had what I needed but let it slide hopping for some one better?" (no right or wrong answer here, just thinking a bit outloud)🧉
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3shara 1y ago

Ah man 😂🤣🫂 took me soo long to want to date again 🥹. Truth is I’m super happy on my own, I prefer it. I like my solitude a bit too much. I wouldn’t add just anyone to my life. They need to be adding something good - not stress or hurt.

Nah, once I date someone my focus is on them. And I take relationships rather serious. I would say I’m really careful about who I date, which leads to very few relationships. But it’s good, cos then I’m sure of my partner and my feelings for them. So if someone better comes along, I don’t care or notice. I blame Jane Austen for my old fashioned dating style 😂

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Martín 🧉🫂🇦🇷 1y ago

jjaja nono, I don't mean that "what if your are dating someone and someone better comes along"

I mean that maybe sometimes we pass on someone good just because we are expecting someone perfect.

I like that style, I tend to do the same though is like going against the tide nowadays. For me is similar; I very, very rarely know someone that I'm really attracted to in every way

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3shara 1y ago

Nah, never did that before. I don’t believe in perfect people, though I do think some people can be perfect for each other (flaws and all).

My friend Joe says it’s about compromise when it comes to each others flaws.

Kindness and proximity are my things. If he’s not kind, and he doesn’t live in London, I don’t bother dating him. I feel like that’s fair though

I think even if someone has flaws you aren’t attracted to, they could still be perfect for you 🫂 someone else that walks by that seems better could have a whole set of flaws you haven’t seen and might not be so perfect for you.