Hypergamy is eugenics. You're just mad/jealous/whatever that your traits (being a whiner and a quitter) aren't what is being selected for.

Hypergamy states that most all of the women go for the top percentage of men (men that have desirable traits for women which is looks, resources, or a combination of the two) and that some or many men get left out. This means men born without good looks, men not smart enough to make decent money, or men without a combination of the two will have less success in having children.

Men who give up will have no success in having children.