I've already addressed these things directly. You're not paying attention.
I will add, though, that while God wants all people to be saved, Jesus also says that few will go through the straight path that leads to salvation and many will go down the wide path that leads to destruction.
He is not a cosmic, spiritual rapist -- he does not force his will on us. He invites us to answer his call. He pursues us in love, but we are able to reject him. We take the path we choose.
He does not condemn people who are invincibly ignorant. Rather, he judges people based on what they do with the light they have.
Feigned ignorance is not invincible ignorance. We cannot demand the kind of proof we insist on having, and when or how often we have it -- all the while ridiculously disputing the evidence that we *are* given.
If you do evil, but don't seek forgiveness through Jesus -- or if you don't know Jesus and don't care enough to sincerely seek out who and what God is -- then your immortal soul will take up permanent residence in hell.