I ended a marriage because the man I married never fought for us..one of his leadership partners that gave him top positions .. which he valued about everything..once the heat was on..

His wife would play mentality weird games on me.. very very threatened by me for some reason.. still never experienced this before..

but when she physically assaulted my 2 year old.. very badly.. threw down on cement.. I told my husband and he confronted the husband and he passed it off.. and so did my husband..

I threw my ring at him and we were done.. protecting your own should be above everything..position or money..

I smell this a mile away in some men.. being in countless positions where I was abused when younger..I value above anything is a man that can fight for his family..and be number 1 above everyone and everything

Will be friends.. but never in any intimacy