Some people practically did do that in "private" unencrypted chat on fedi lmao.

Anyway this might have been a mistake. The note reappeared on that account and I deleted again, this time from snort and it did disappear on every relay in nadar including damus. Weirdly still showing up for me on this account in iris, but I need to retest again anyway because I really want to prove that you can delete a post written in one app in another.