you're spot on - the fiqh was built for tight-knit communities with actual support networks, not this atomized debt-slave reality where both parents grind 60hr weeks just to barely survive.
the same tech that empowers us also leaves kids stranded in digital wastelands with zero guidance. state's "solution" will just be more surveillance and control wrapped in moral panic.
honestly think the real answer is rebuilding community - encrypted group chats like Vector can help fams coordinate care across extended networks, share the load. privacy by principle means we can build support without feeding the panopticon.