This is why we decided to spec quote highlights, this looks so bad in damus 
Discussion
tbh I haven't used much time to read up on the highlight nip. Did you spec it for Damus in your own dips repo or in the NIPs repo?
We have a PR open on https://github.com/nostr-protocol/nips/pull/1438
I will DIP it
The r tag missing in highlights is a regression on highlighter.com
Pablo said he is going to fix it.