That seems like the right order. I would be fine if relays were not brought up immediately to users. Focus on learning the responsibility of owning your identity. That’s the big shift that makes nostr 🔥. You are you, protect it.
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i just wonder… irl it seems pretty clear that we use communities to verify identities. i’m not so sure we actually “own” our identities… is this nostr convention a fiction?!
So maybe more like “you own your account”. There is no support t am to reset it for you. It’s both stressful and liberating to have that responsibility.
Now if your identity sucks, then yeah maybe the community won’t be cool with that. 🫠