Novice here. How do run your own lightning address server? I have complete the other pre-requisite
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Get a domain name, point it to the machine that's running the node and the server. Then you can use tools like
https://github.com/niteshbalusu11/rustdress
Or
https://github.com/Dolu89/ligess
that run a lightning address server and talk to your node.
You'll have to use something like Nginx and Certbot for tls certificates and you'll see a ton of tutorials on Google for setting up that.
