Could we add relevant relays automatically whenever we follow someone? It seems that would offer the same benefits without the centralization. Not sure if there's some limit to the number of relays or if a client can discern which are read only, etc. I'm not buying that embrace the chaos is the best or only solution. Maybe it is, but I have doubts.
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isnt it only a problem if aiming for some kind of global state
if Alyssa and Ben want to talk to other theyll figure it out
maybe Alyssa actually doesnt care what Bens got to say