Why are you ignoring the context of what I said before and after?

Even suggesting this feels like harassment is insane. I see a lot of interactions between people. I see people being nasty to eachother. Why does no one post some screenshots of how bad it is? Is that REALLY such a crazy thing to ask for?

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because:

a) we have developed thick skins after months of being on alpha grade clients that barely work

b) because it's more fun to quote and ridicule assholes and the best defense is offense

seriously, point b. i am starting to realise just how effective it is when i expose assholes to the public view, they don't want to continue, surprise surprise

first thing an abuser does is isolate you

I have no problem with that. People seem to be suggesting that I am defending or supporting any of it. It's fucking dishonest as shit and I won't have it. I have never engaged in any such activity, so to attempt to lump me in the same group is going to get my back up.

What I suspect is that some people are conflating people being shitty with targeted repeated harassment of individuals. Since it never shows up in my feeds, I wanted to see some it. And then to suggest that 'feels' like harassment in itself is fucking ridiculous.

This really is beside the main point. The blanket approach to try and remedy this is lazy.

LOL I actually have reposted some of the stuff and I report all of it, but the worst stuff was so bad that the media server and relay operators deleted it.

I've been asked numerous times to show evidence and each person who asks acts like they're the first one to ask.

Check the reports. 🤙

offense is the best defense

just quote post them and watch the pile in

So your solution to fight harassment is to... engage with harassers.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

I do, but then everyone complains that I expose them to wannabe rapists and other nutjobs.

such little girls do need a big brother but that isn't gonna come from nostr

I don't even know where to look for the reports, but I can do that. Again, please don't be disingenuous here.

1. I purposely do not go seeking out people to prove anything to me, for the very reason that this would be labelled as a form of harassment.

2. I stated I have seen people asking before, and being ignored.

Verify, don't trust, innit? What I consider some being a dick someone else may consider harassment. But nothing that has ever show up in my feeds would fall into that category for me, which is exactly why I have asked in the past.

Go to Nostrudel, go to my npub, click on the tab "Reports" and you can see the spammers, impersonators, harassers, and trolls I have reported.

You won't fine many events, as most have been deleted. You just see the report to the event. And that, only if it is on your relay.

Here's one of the few images, that didn't get deleted, yet. He has a whole series, with different npub's faces, that he drops in their replies. I guess it's supposed to be an advertisement, but I took it badly. 🥴

Delete the space, to see the note.

nostr:nevent1qvzqqqqqqypzqzxl89xsqn0zeznl5f7nrzjs696ynkg58dycytpm z5mehgygatavqqs98lwk65p20994u3udlqzmjkjga7n4aa5tuer2amylgfdgx8gatkqe4gg0x

I knew I could count on you to come through with this. I added a report too.

That particular account has only replied to 3 other accounts, so maybe they are more active on their alts. It may be that some of these are already hidden by the time I see them, so I don't end up seeing them at all.

My overarching point is that improving tools for individuals would be a better approach to dealing with these accounts rather than blanket bots which affect the rest of the ecosystem. Defaulting to not displaying images in replies unless you follow that account, hiding responses with certain keywords that you can control by default, and so on. If I ignore them they will eventually lose interest because they are seeking a reaction.

We're building such things, but the bot is what he built and everyone is free to subscribe to it or block it. I don't ever see the bot.

If we can't stop the enterprising chap who starts marketing Girls of Nostr Gone Wild deepfakes, then other people can't stop the bot that labels those deepfakes.

Censorship resistance cuts both ways. 🤷‍♀️

We all have to just mute and deal with it.

or use clients with WoT whitelisting

Does usually apply to DMs, for whatever idiotic reason.

Most of the events I reported no longer exist. Only the reports remain, as those are my notes and I haven't deleted them.